Why do women conspicuously endeavour to make men fall in love with them and strive to get men to give women their hearts if all they do with our hearts is just break them into pieces afterward? Perhaps it is the hope of all men to be in love with someone who’s also in love with them even for a moment. Perhaps, it is this hope that drives men to subsist. I suppose I just answered my first question. It must be a biological imperative that women make men chase them even if men’s love is unrequited. The survival of the male masses are dependent on this hope. Is that what a midlife crisis is? Is a midlife crisis the point in time a man realizes that love is simply not in his cards?
It seems so frivolous to enjoy something without someone else with whom to share the experience. How do you know you’re in love? If all else seems frivolous without that person. Therefore I suppose the real definition of confidence is living a life in which the enjoyment of life is possible alone. It seems to be this very trait to which women are most attracted. Their actions are therefore hypocritical. On the one hand, they are drawn to men who do not need their love but on the other, are seemingly indifferent toward men who are in love with them.
I suppose the most fundamental question is: how can a man enjoy live regardless of other people? The answer, I believe, is personal achievement. At the end of the day, it’s not man versus man. It’s man versus himself. Man can find confidence in pushing his own limits.